"We were always told that the man we marry will determine the quality of our life. I was young and worried what would happen if my husband was a bad person."But Yakub Ali, the farmer she married, turned out to be a kind man who took away the "loneliness and replaced it with genuine love and affection", Ms Khatun said."There wasn"t much, we were poor. At least there was peace."But their happiness was short-lived.